Quite recently, my four-year-old (the increasingly infamous “B-Dub”) has become enamored of the idea of stories — not just stories you watch or read at bedtime, but the kind of stories we speak aloud and… y’know, just make up. Pulling silly, weird, absurd, even scary things right out of the air — catching them like curious birds and then cupping your hands around them and pulling back one finger at a time to reveal the strange and squirming beast you have made captive.
He wants me to tell him stories, as kids often do of their parents, and because I am both a) interested in his creative development and b) a fundamentally lazy human being, I decided to instead include him in the storytelling act. I don’t just want him to sit passively as I tell him stories; I want him to co-create. I explain to him that it’s his dime and he might as well get the stories he wants — and so before I begin the (usually very short) story, I ask him who the story is about and what’s the situation. Like improv, except with a kooky preschooler who frequently likes to include “poop” and “toots” in the narrative arrangement. The most interesting thing, perhaps, is not just that he helps me tell the story — but if you keep leading him down the road with questions, eventually he ends up telling the story himself.
As such, we’ve developed a rotating cast of regular characters which he has named (and to some degree invested with personality): Detectives Baloney and Hair; their robotic dog, Hamslice; the protective and kind forest monster; Pinky the Bigfoot; another dog named Blue; an animated chair named, duh, Chair; Spot, the Ladybug (also occasionally called Dottie); Snowball, the animated snowball who has a propensity to kill zombies by shooting snowballs from its body; Leafy, a giant talking leaf; Daddy Long-Legs, a spider who everyone thought was a bad guy but is actually a good guy; and Steppy Stone, who is for some reason a stepping stone that talks? Just go with it.
Anyway — so, hey, it’s Father’s Day, right? (Happy Father’s Day to all of you DADs out there with your HOT DADBODS and your CHARCOAL GRILLS and your SKEET SHOOTING and your incompetent portrayal on American TV commercials!) My wife, my wonderful wife, my glorious wife, my amazing wife, went ahead and actually had B-Dub draw up all of his famous little characters and then she bound those drawings together with needle and thread which means holy shit my son wrote his first book.
No, it’s not going to land on any bestseller lists — but hey, neither have I. (Which reminds me hey ha ha ha preorder ZER0ES or I’ll scream.) But it’s amazing and creative and weird and frankly the kid will probably out-sell me in a hot New York minute. I actually don’t know what a hot New York minute is, but I’m guessing it smells like hot dog water and humid, aerosolized rat urine.
I mean, damn, check out the sheer rumpled ruination — the bedraggled world-weariness! — of Detective Hair, pictured above. I want that guy solving my murder, okay? I’m just saying.
You can check out the gallery of his drawings from the book.
And now, another round of:
Things B-Dub Has Said (No Context For You)
– “Sometimes it’s good to do things yourself. But it’s okay to ask for help, too.”
– (on creating a new “game”): “You smell R2D2. Then R2D2 hides. Then you have to smell where he’s hiding.”
– “I’m Blood Spider-Man. I shoot blood. And I drink blood, too. I mean, what else would I drink? Webs? Yuck that sounds awful.”
– “Nobody knows what Wonder Woman eats. Ultron gives you a rash. Iron Man heals it with his Boo-Boo Gun.”
– “I’LL make the cuckoo. YOU make the clock. Let’s go.”
– “I’LL CENSOR THE WEINER.”
– “I WILL BE A FROST GIANT AND I WILL PUNCH HOMES AND OFFICES.”
– “I AM MOPBOT 3000. I PEED MY PANTS. GOODNIGHT MOPPO BOTTO.”
– “Girls can play with trucks, too,” he said, irritated at a commercial for toy trucks aimed at boys.
– “That guy pooped out a monkey, and the monkey pooped out a snake.”
– “If I eat a ton of coconuts, I will become COCONUT MAN.”
– “You Should Give A Cat A Hot Dog And It Will Walk Behind You Forward Or Backward,” he said, deciding that this needs to be a children’s book he should either write or read.
– “Darth Vader is Han Solo’s father.”
– “Daddy? “Yes?” “Do Transformers poop?” #toughcosmicquestions
– “They have hard energon poops,” he said moments later, answering his own question.
– My wife: “It’s time to sit down now and read. Or we can just go to bed.” B-Dub: “Fine. I will sit here on this PILE OF NONSENSE.”
– Him: “Do you want a Cheezit?” Me: “Sure.” Him: “I’ll repulsor-blast one over to you!”
– “I built a laser gun. It shoots lasers, missiles, syrup, and bees. But not all at once.”
– As a morning greeting: “Looks like we’re all powered up with BEES!”
forgottenrat says:
A robotic dog and a talking stepping stone–is B-Dub perhaps a closet Whovian? 🙂
June 21, 2015 — 5:32 PM
Wendy says:
The acorn never falls far from the tree. Clearly.
June 21, 2015 — 5:57 PM
Katy says:
The “Girls can play with trucks, too,” part has officially made him the Awesomest Four-Year-Old Ever. Seriously. He deserves an award for that line. 🙂
June 21, 2015 — 6:09 PM
Kristin Mireles (@kristinmireles) says:
Amen! He’s officially smarter than most adults I know!
June 22, 2015 — 1:51 AM
kaytee says:
Yes, that made me cheer!
June 22, 2015 — 7:00 AM
Pimion says:
Your kid sounds fun! And you seem to be a cool daddy.
I love these “personal” articles. it feels like the author is my friend and and he’s just telling me a story.
June 21, 2015 — 6:28 PM
bunnycommander says:
Wow…great stuff! Thanks for sharing. B-Dub has a truly awesome, fun mind. Loved the drawings too.
Happy Father’s Day to you.
June 21, 2015 — 6:38 PM
John E. O. Stevens (@eruditeogre) says:
I think storytelling is the best activity with your child. I’ve been telling a story to my daughter since Christmas, a nightly serial which she helps tell, often by injecting outrageous new characters. That’s how the magical library has a floating walrus librarian, twin pirate ghosts, and a brownie who works for maple syrup. It gives us something to share every night even when she’s traveling with her mom or one of us has had a tiring day and is not up for other conversation. The best part is when she recalls story details from a previous installments (often from weeks ago) that I have missed and we have to rework the narrative to keep the story going.
June 21, 2015 — 7:32 PM
Sheila says:
What an imaginative young man and talented too. Reminds me of my granddaughter, we write stories together. I think she might be another Stephen King! Already into dark fiction. Lord have mercy! LOL
June 21, 2015 — 8:29 PM
Natalie says:
My kids don’t write (outside school) yet. But then they never see me writing because I only do that while I’m alone. But my daughter will sit next to me and read and read and read. My son plays computer games like his daddy and also seems to think that mopping and vacuuming are men’s work. Children learn what they see.
June 21, 2015 — 9:09 PM
Michelle Barker says:
“Looks like we’re all powered up with BEES!” Love it. Clearly your son has inherited your imagination. Now I know where all those bee references come from on your blog. You’re a great role model for him. Happy Father’s Day 🙂
June 21, 2015 — 11:07 PM
Joan Buffandeau says:
Happy Fathers Day ! I love your story about your son. My son at around 4 would draw me pictures and then tell me the story of the picture. It could an ocean, airplanes and it always ended up something being blown. He blew up quite a few things. He’s still a great story teller.
June 21, 2015 — 11:54 PM
elctrcrngr says:
B-Dub days on your blog are always bright spots in my week. Thanks for sharing him with us, and Happy Father’s Day!
June 22, 2015 — 12:47 AM
elctrcrngr says:
Oh, what is it with your family and bees?
June 22, 2015 — 12:48 AM
Kristin Mireles (@kristinmireles) says:
*Raises a sensible cup of chamomile tea* You, sir, win at parenting! And, more importantly, your son wins at four-year-old-ing!
June 22, 2015 — 1:50 AM
Ed says:
When we see all the cross-overs that we have on the shelves we now have a new one – Vampire spiderman………thats got some legs surely!
June 22, 2015 — 2:56 AM
Snorri Kristjansson says:
Somewhere in The Future, a host of primary school teachers will think of you. What exactly they’ll think of you is anyone’s guess.
His English teacher will be happy, though.
June 22, 2015 — 3:32 AM
Blue cole says:
ha. I made it into a Wendig novel. FINALLY.
June 22, 2015 — 4:49 AM
Becky Fyfe says:
This has me smiling so much! I love your B-Dub quotes.
I once put all of my then-3-year-old daughter’s drawings and stories into a book for her grandparents and teachers (using Lulu). It’s probably still up there. She told some brilliant stories back then, like a bout the giant named Lasunk that gave huge sloppy kisses, and the flower that wanted to be loved and didn’t know why no one ever came and picked it. (We did another boo of her stories and drawings when she was 4. But the pictures did not match up with the stories in either book. That little 3 year old is 12 now and taller than me.)
June 22, 2015 — 5:30 AM
Wendy Christopher says:
You have one smart little Mini-You there, Chuck! And, just so you know, it gets even better when they start school. You’ll ask them all their day and they’ll start off telling you they did finger-painting and singing, and at breaktime they played on the climbing frame, and then they went in and did some reading and you’ll be nodding and smiling proudly… until suddenly they’ll tell you something that’ll make you go “Whoa-huuuuh-WHAAAAT?” And then your job is to mentally backtrack, trying to spot the station where they first stepped off the platform of reality and jumped on the scary fantasy train. Not as easy as it sounds, lemme tell you!
June 22, 2015 — 7:33 AM
Laura J. Quinn says:
Bees. Bees everywhere. Which begs the question:
Are you, in fact, the dreaded dispenser of bees as you’ve so often claimed?
Or is it B-Dub?
Is this a chicken and egg thing? Who said it first, the father or the son? Either way, MORE BEES! Right here, on THIS PILE OF NONSENSE!
June 22, 2015 — 7:53 AM
Marina says:
I’m sorry to ask this if you’ve been asked it before, but I’ve gotten myriad conflicting answers and for some reason I feel like I could take your answer as the final word on the subject.
I like to pre-order books. Makes me feel like it they release a day early or something I’m winning at life and the internet and books. But I’ve been told that it upsets the “count” for best seller lists as the sale officially was made before the release date, and the release date is the date on which the “count” begins for inclusion on best seller lists. Please advise.
Uh, I’m a big fan, think your Blackbirds series is amazing and wretched and full of possible truth and awful and redeeming and just whoa.
June 22, 2015 — 9:33 AM
Rachel Ambrose says:
This is like eight kinds of fantastic.
June 22, 2015 — 9:40 AM
Shonnerz says:
At least!
June 22, 2015 — 10:01 AM
Shonnerz says:
I volunteer as babysitter!
June 22, 2015 — 10:00 AM
Marie says:
I must must have a t-shirt that says I’LL make the cuckoo. YOU make the clock. Let’s go.” Please please pretty please with crazy on it.
June 22, 2015 — 10:54 AM
Doc Coleman says:
Is this the first time your wife has been a publisher?
Thank goodness the laser gun only shoots bees. Just think how much worse it would be if shot facebees!
Doc
June 22, 2015 — 11:20 AM
Tsara Shelton says:
When my sons sat on a pile of nonsense it was usually one or more brothers. Tee hee!!
I hope you had a fantastic, fun, and story filled Father’s Day!!!! Considering the adorable-ness and insightful-ness of B-Dub, the work your wife was happy to do knowing it’d give both you and your kiddo the greatest gift, and your infectious joy and brilliant choices when sharing team Wendig with us–I’m confident you deserve the grandest of Father’s Days!!!!
~Tsara
June 22, 2015 — 11:39 AM
abillyhiggins says:
Glad the kid’s thinking about bees. We all need to think more about bees.
June 22, 2015 — 12:03 PM
kirizar says:
I like a mind that comes up with a multi-purpose ray gun and yet recognizes that even imaginary technology has it limits.
June 22, 2015 — 12:44 PM
C.N. Martin says:
B dub is already a better writer than I am.
June 22, 2015 — 2:29 PM
Sue Clarke says:
Your son’s book looks fantastic. Kids have wierd and wonderful ideas for stories and I love the way everything happpens in a non linear fashion. Who needs a plot outline anyway, under tens are the original beatnick writers. When my daughter was 6 she wrote a book, (3 pages of paper stapled in the middle) and illustrated with sparkle crayons, of course. It was about a hotel where different fairies lived in each room, it was more than a little gothic and quite unlike any fairy story I have ever read.
June 22, 2015 — 4:00 PM
Siipis says:
Oh gods, your kid sounds absolutely amazing! You’re an amazing dad. I’m not even particularly fond of kids, and now I want one I can tell stories with and talk about superheroes and laser syrup guns. I wish you all the best!
June 23, 2015 — 2:26 AM
mlhe says:
HAVE. ANOTHER. KID! This child needs a sister. She will rock his world. My daughter was born when my son was four. When she was six months old (in 1991) we got our first home computer. When she was 10 months old, my son wrote on her forehead with a ball point pen: “DELETE.”
June 23, 2015 — 9:09 AM
Shane Kroetsch says:
Aren’t kids great? The favourite part of my own writing is that it makes them want to write their own stories and create their own characters. Hell, their word counts are higher than mine some days and all three are under the age of 11. Just for fun, google the video “what does a transformer’s fart sound like”, I think he would enjoy it.
June 23, 2015 — 11:08 AM
Allison says:
These are awesome. You should turn B-Dub’s quotes into a Flash Fiction challenge.
June 24, 2015 — 1:55 AM
Wendy Christopher says:
Seconded! Did you see the Flash Fiction challenge for this week? If not, you might want to mosey on over with this one… 🙂
June 24, 2015 — 7:37 AM
M T McGuire says:
It doesn’t get any less weird. Trust me. My boy is seven.
July 6, 2015 — 5:39 PM
M T McGuire says:
Ps and he also wondered how transformers poo and decided they wee oil and poo congealed oil with iron filings in it. 🙂
July 6, 2015 — 5:44 PM
Jenny says:
Will somebody please invent a “Boo Boo Gun” in real life?
July 10, 2015 — 11:25 AM