With the news out of Aurora this morning it’s hard not to feel out of sorts. This especially after a morning I spent researching mass murder for a scene in a book and then next thing I know there’s this news rolling in about dead people at a movie theater and gunshots and hurt kids and suddenly it’s a whole lot of bad feelings. Feelings that go toxic, septic, pretty fast.
On the other side of it, I saw something yesterday that was making me feel pretty good: there’s a local food stand that popped up within walking distance of the house. Nice little covered wagon with produce and some homemade jam and fresh-baked bread. Nobody there — just a cash box. The prices are all cheap, y’know, you can grab more potatoes than you’d need for a whole week and it won’t cost you more than two bucks for that giant basket of potatoes. And the people who put this farm stand up, they have a sign that says, “If you’re down on hard times, just take what you need, we understand.”
Which is pretty great.
And it leads me to this, and this is something I said on Twitter and Facebook this morning:
We balance out the horrors of a day like this by willfully doing good for others.
So, hug your kids, give to a charity, rescue a puppy, something, anything.
Evil can’t be undone, but good can outshine it.
So, if you feel like it, post something below in the comments that’s good and nice in this world. Don’t talk about the shooting or other bad shit. Don’t politicize anything (today is not a real good day to defend the second amendment, or talk about naughty pop culture or liberal-conservative fol-de-rol). Just post something nice. A story. Charity. Something your kid said or did. Anything at all.
This not in service of forgetting tragedy or ignoring it, but rather, to remind ourselves that people aren’t all bad and that one aberration a species does not make.
If you’re up for it, of course.
JRD Skinner says:
Today, while departing the house, I informed my eldest son that we’d be adventuring out to our local pulp pusher this weekend. He began to dance – not just any dance, a dance of our people, a ridiculous, nonsense geek dance that could never have been taught, only passed along through the witnessed joys of fresh impending tales.
I was very pleased.
When he was done with his flying elbows, and lolling neck, I gave him a hug.
July 20, 2012 — 10:18 AM
terribleminds says:
@JRD:
Our 14-month-old now does a dance we call the “bug-stomping dance.” It’s this drunken herky-jerky back and forth stompy-footed hoe-down. He’ll do it on command now, which is fun.
— c.
July 20, 2012 — 10:19 AM
Jessica McHugh says:
I signed the publication contract for my 12th novel this morning. I plan on dousing the world in happy showers of champagne today. 🙂
July 20, 2012 — 10:18 AM
terribleminds says:
Enjoy the Champagne, @Jessica, and congrats!
— c.
July 20, 2012 — 10:19 AM
Tee Morris says:
This happened to me this week…
Sonic Boom: “Where are you going, dad?”
Me: “Going for a run.”
SB: “Can I come with you?”
We ran roughly a mile. Together.
This is why I have hope and still believe in good people and a good life.
July 20, 2012 — 10:18 AM
terribleminds says:
@Tee — I look forward to days like that. — c.
July 20, 2012 — 10:20 AM
Albert Berg says:
I just wanted to say how thankful I am for my kid. He’s only been around for ten days and already I love him more than I thought possible. When I heard the news today, I walked by his crib and saw him sleeping peacefully, and there was something truly deeply healing in the sight of a baby sleeping while I was so distraught.
July 20, 2012 — 10:19 AM
terribleminds says:
@Albert — holy crap, I missed that he was born. Congrats to you and yours. A sleeping baby is a wonderful thing. In a lot of ways (because then they’re not running around trying to touch the dog’s butt).
— c.
July 20, 2012 — 10:20 AM
N. Celestina White says:
I don’t have a particular story, but I do have beautiful friends who want me to succeed. They hold me up when I’m sinking, cry when I do, and laugh with me. I’m thankful for all of them.
July 20, 2012 — 10:20 AM
AmyLikesToDraw says:
A few days ago, my parents were out in their garden and my mom saw (almost stepped on) a tiny, tiny, baby bird that had apparently fallen out of one of the many birdhouses there. It was a teensy thing, pink body, eyes closed. It was strong, though, with a will to live – kept raising its open beak to be fed, flapping its little proto-wings.
My parents got out the big ladder, climbed up, replaced it in the birdhouse. The parent birds – sparrows, I believe – immediately flew in, and were in and out all day.
Baby seems to be doing fine. Hasn’t been kicked out. We think the little guy’s gonna make it. Would’ve been easier to just put the little guy down, but my parents decided to give him another shot. Might be a little thing, but it’s a pretty big thing to Baby Sparrow.
There’s my happy thought today. Small and fragile, but very alive.
July 20, 2012 — 10:20 AM
Betsy Dornbusch says:
I got a new baby niece this week. Her name is Mara. As it has been a rough time for some friends of mine, seeing that sweet baby face has kept me going.
Also, the whole Colorado roller derby team went to visit my friend’s daughter in the hospital.
July 20, 2012 — 10:21 AM
Amber Love says:
I love you, Chuck.
For today, 50% of proceeds from sales today after fees/shipping will go to @bonfilsdotorg Blood Center in #Aurora. My shop is http://www.etsy.com/shop/ElizabethAmber
Also for comic and costume fans in the Lancaster, PA area. on Aug 3rd there’s a non-profit that really wants your help. The Occupational Development Center that employs adults with mental disabilities, is hosting a picnic and wants cosplayers there. You can email me or check my website/podcast for that information.
Oct 6-7 is our annual NJ Superhero Weekend at Comic Fusion in NJ to raise money for our local domestic violence shelter.
July 20, 2012 — 10:22 AM
Rebecca J Fleming says:
This morning my nan was cleaning out one of her drawers and she came across this old watercolour paint box: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/563934_10150911332771198_1827291876_n.jpg
It reminded me of the many times I spent as a child sitting with her at her kitchen table, where we would paint together using this paint box. Sometimes we each painted our own pictures, and sometimes we worked on a single picture between us. It used to make me feel like such a grown up artist, even though I would usually end up sulking because her paintings were better than mine. She would always make chocolate fudge and we’d eat it while we were painting, and then when we were finished, she’d pin our artwork to her fridge. One of the strongest and happiest memories of my childhood.
July 20, 2012 — 10:24 AM
Dawn Nikithser says:
I came up with an idea for a tattoo — I want my family (mom, dad, stepdad, sister, aunt) to each come up with a word to describe my relationship with them, without using words like daughter or sister or family. I will have their word, in their handwriting, tattooed on my upper arm, one at a time.
My sister, who is amazing, was the first to respond. Her word was “unbreakable.”
I found that to be perfect not just as a description for my relationship with her, but also for the day.
July 20, 2012 — 10:24 AM
sj says:
My 2 year old saw me crying as I read about this and shouted “OH NO MOMMY! NO CRYIN’!” Then offered a kiss. Cos, you know – kisses make everything better.
Oh, and then my 5 year old mooned me when I went upstairs to bring him down for breakfast.
July 20, 2012 — 10:24 AM
LGVazquez says:
My 4yr old daughter loves Spider-Man & His Amazing Friends…the one that was made in the early 80s. We watch it together on Netflix. I’ve shown her the newer stuff, and she doesn’t like it. She will shoot imaginary webs at me (for no reason).
One episode, she was concerned that the person wearing the spider costume wasn’t the “real guy” …she didn’t get that the episode was about a director making a movie about Spider-Man.
July 20, 2012 — 10:25 AM
Kristina Wright says:
Hot and humid in Virginia today. Husband is off from work today, the babies are keeping me entertained as only a 2 and 1/2 year old and 10 month old can do. I’ll get in some writing time later at the coffee shop and then date night with my husband. Life is sweet.
July 20, 2012 — 10:27 AM
Icarus Mortis says:
Yesterday a friend of mine posted a photo of himself cradling his new baby, his little daughter looking over at it inquisitively. It’s a beautiful photo.
Funny too; though we’ve never met in 12 years of knowing each other, I reflect at how long my hair has grown whilst he has developed quite the bald patch. But that’s all right; time changes, and we change. And I’m very happy for him.
July 20, 2012 — 10:32 AM
Patty Blount says:
I love this, Chuck. What a great way to help… I don’t know — ‘process’ the toxicity? Headlines like this always leave me feeling scraped raw and helpless and even hopeless.
What you’ve said here lets me hold onto some hope.
So, here’s my contribution:
In April, my mother died. She passed away in the Middlesex (Connecticut) County Hospital’s hospice level. I was there for several days and the hospice staff took care of me as much as her. On my second day there, the reality that she would NEVER recover hit me like a fist to my gut and I ran from her room, blinded by tears. The hospice floor has lots of corners with chairs and sofas; I stumbled into one and sobbed until I was dry.
I felt a hand on my head stroke my hair. I couldn’t see through the tears. Tissues were pressed into my hand. My eyes were wiped. A woman I don’t know sat with me until I couldn’t cry anymore.
I don’t even know her name. I don’t even know if she worked there or was another patient’s relative but she held me until I found the strength to return to my mother’s side so I could comfort her.
I think of this stranger often and hope she knows how grateful I am.
July 20, 2012 — 10:32 AM
JRD Skinner says:
Chuck: Great stuff – any child willing to bust out their moves while others are watching is on the right track.
July 20, 2012 — 10:36 AM
Kevin Michaels says:
Woke up to the news about the shooting in Aurora and felt my heart explode…..our oldest daughter lives in Denver and is the kind of person who does those midnight shows with all her friends (and for a Comic-Con kid like her, a midnight showing of Batman would almost be the norm)…..spent an uneasy couple of hours trying to reach her, and as each minute passed the fears grew until she finally responded that she was ok (she blew off the midnight show and slept in this morning).
I am happy and grateful and blessed that she is fine (as are all my other kids), but I am so sorry for those parents in Aurora who aren’t as fortunate….my heart and sympathies go out to them.
Some times you get so caught up in the pursuit of a dream you forget/overlook the things that truly matter like the love of family and friends…………..
July 20, 2012 — 10:38 AM
Rosalind Smith-Nazilli says:
As someone who lived with the HUNGERFORD massacre, my heart goes out to those people.
But – Last night, the hubs and myself decided that if we were going to do it, now was the time..
We are both in our 50s and have dreamed for ever of owning a home on wheels and travelling the width and breadth of Turkey, he taking pics, and me writing the copy.
So – We have started looking for camper van, or something a little larger, and all the stuff needed to fulfill this dream.
Can’t wait to be “On the Road.”
July 20, 2012 — 10:41 AM
Dan O'Shea says:
My daughter graduated college a couple months back with a degree in English. I figured I’d have an unemployed graduate on my hands, maybe waitressing or something. But she actually managed to land a good job in her field as a content writer/blogger for a small company that runs both online and brick and mortar swimwear operations. So yay for that.
Yesterday, she was supposed to leave for Miami – big beachwear fashion thing going on down there this week. She’s been prepping for that since she was hired – interviews lined up, live tweeting from fashion shows, blogging to do. But the last week, she’s been feeling pretty punky, and she got an e-mail from a friend she hangs out with a lot that her friend has mono and she should get tested. So she did. Test was negative. But a couple days ago, she really felt like crap. Got her into the doc, who did some quick blood work and sent her off to the ER in an alarmingly urgent fashion. Since the mono test was negative, he was worried about blood clots in the lung, worried about her enlarged spleen, worried about all sorts of stuff.
The ER tested for all sorts of crap. They were throwing around phrases like “Tier 2 diagnosis” – meaning they’ve ruled out all the usual suspects and it’s time to start looking for other, worse, possibly life threatening things. I was one scared dad, I gotta say. Yesterday, she went to a hematologist. Turns out it was mono. Turns out the normal test sometimes misses it, turns out she’s a little anemic, and I guess that can screw with the results, but there is a fancier test that doesn’t. Turns out she’ll be just fine in a week or two.
But she can’t make it to this thing in Miami – probably the biggest week of the year for her company, and the most important week of the year for someone in her position with the company. She was scared shitless she’d get fired. So was I. New kid, only a few weeks with the company, and she has to bail on her most important responsibility? Frankly, given many of my experiences with employers over the years, I expected something like “Hey, that sucks. We’re really sorry. But we can’t afford to not have somebody at this. We’re going to have to cut you loose.” And then they’d just call whoever the runner up was for the job and move on.
But they didn’t. They’ve been nothing but kind. Told the kid just to worry about getting well, that they didn’t hire her just for this week, but because she was the best fit. That she’s done great work so far. Told her not to worry that she doesn’t have any sick time accumulated yet, that she’ll keep getting her check. They’ve even called up just to check how she’s doing.
Business owners have been catching a lot of shit in this political season. Too often, they all get painted with the same brush, all get portrayed as greedy wealthy bastards exploiting their workers for their own benefit. But some of them are nice people. Some of them are really nice people.
And hey, if you need a swimsuit or someother beachy thing and you want to buy it from a place that actually treats their people right, consider shopping at http://www.swimwearboutique.com, won’t you?
July 20, 2012 — 10:41 AM
UrsulaV says:
I’m an avid—okay, deranged and obsessive—gardener. There’s a type of butterfly that’s getting kinda rare locally called a Pipevine Swallowtail. They’ve got a huge range, but they only eat a type of plant called “pipevine” so habitat loss and stuff like kudzu and English ivy overrunning forests has really done a number on them. I see maybe one a year. They taste horrible and the caterpillars sting, so lots of other butterflies mimic them, but these days it’s almost all mimics and no pipevine swallowtails.
This year I grew the saddest, mangiest, Charlie-Brown-Christmas pipevine plant you’ve ever seen (a variety called, incidentally, “Hairy Dutchman’s Pipe”) and a few weeks ago, I saw a single pipevine swallowtail caterpillar on it. It ate its way through the plant and then vanished.
I had about given up hope, and then I discovered that there is now an adult pipevine swallowtail living in the garden. Every time I see him I want to cheer. And this fall I need to go buy about five more Hairy Dutchman’s Pipe plants.
July 20, 2012 — 10:41 AM
Anna Silver says:
Chuck- Thank you for posting this! I have a great thing to share, which I will be embarking on in August. 29gifts.org is a website dedicated to a month-long giving challenge that anyone can participate in. If you’ve received, pay it forward. If you haven’t (and I guarantee you have), this can create a shift in perspective that opens up a space in you for receiving. It doesn’t require money, just a willingness to give. Anyway, a good way to put some more good juju out into the world! http://www.29gifts.org
July 20, 2012 — 10:41 AM
Doc Coleman says:
Yesterday I found out that an artist sketched me at Balticon during a panel. She’s given me license to use the sketch. It is a pretty good likeness. You can see it here:
http://lostsquid.tumblr.com/post/23887880821/balticon-a-nice-little-scifi-fantasy-con-in-hunt
Doc
July 20, 2012 — 10:41 AM
J.R. Blackwell says:
This morning, after having a night of nightmares, I decided that I should look for a place to volunteer. That’s when I learned that my city has a fabulous website where you can search for volunteer opportunities by the area you are interested in, or even the skills that you have! The interface is easy to understand and helped me get in contract with a really neat opportunity volunteering for the red cross. If anyone here is in Philly, it would be a neat website to check out: http://volunteer.phila.gov/#s
July 20, 2012 — 10:42 AM
Kirk Hoffman says:
Years ago, my wife and I were driving through the Black Hills in South Dakota.
A group of Harley riders were approaching from the opposite direction. As we neared they slowed and made a 180 degree turn a ways in front of us. Now following, we then watched as they looped back across the road and stopped.
As a cruiser bike fan, I was first interested in the bike. Then I wondered where they were going, why the double loop. Curious, I kept my speed slow as we reached the group and looked over.
There was a group of them, but one man in particular was separate from the pack. He was the stereotypical Harley wildman – a veritable mountain hulk, grey thicket-bearded, wearing a store’s worth of denim and leather. A huge, impressive rider of the ages.
As we passed, he leaned down, reaching.
A little blond waif of a girl stood below, head tilted back, holding up a cup of lemonade, having left her small stand to bring it to him.
I remember this often – thanks for the chance to remember again and share.
July 20, 2012 — 10:43 AM
Kevin Michaels says:
Some times you get so caught up in the pursuit of a dream you forget/overlook the things that truly matter like the love of family and friends…………..
Years ago in a previous life as a corporate warrior, I would walk into the house after a dog-ass long day filled with aggravation and stress (and an equally killer train ride thanks to NJ Transit). My three kids would scream: “Daddy’s home!” as soon as the key hit the lock….by the time I walked in the front door they were sprinting down the hall to leap in my arms and hug me. The kids are long past the days of leaping into my arms but those memories own my heart.
July 20, 2012 — 10:44 AM
Mike Luoma says:
My Mom is coming up to Vermont to visit this weekend, along with my Brother, Sister-in-Law and my nephew Ethan. Nothing like having a kid who loves his “Uncle Mike” give me a big hug. Looking forward to a great weekend!
July 20, 2012 — 10:47 AM
Nathaniel Payne says:
After two months of headaches trying to sell our house — with title problems and lawyers and fees, OH MY — we got word this week that we’re finally able to move forward and sign the contract with the buyer this week. Such a relief!
July 20, 2012 — 10:49 AM
@knittahknits says:
Today, I am baking a lemon cake for my best friend’s birthday. My first niece (and my parents’ first grandchild) is due in the next two weeks. The heat has broken and I’m listening to the rain through open windows. Today is about anticipating the happiness that lies ahead. I have never loved my family as much as I do today.
July 20, 2012 — 10:49 AM
Erin says:
Someone at my work found an elderly man wandering lost in their neighborhood, brought him to work and called the police to help him get home. The man can’t remember his address or the name of his caretaker, but this coworker has been working all morning to try and help, including translating for the man, who doesn’t speak English.
July 20, 2012 — 10:50 AM
Veronica Giguere says:
In prepping for an upcoming vacation, my husband bought a new videocam and was testing it out by taping our kids as they played around the house. He found our youngest with her brother, curled up next to him as he beat a level for her on her Leapster game. What are six year old brothers for?
Then, my husband asks her to do something for the camera. She gets a dreamy look on her face and starts singing “The Smile Song” from her favorite cartoon episode (My Little Pony). We played it back, and the expression on her little three-year-old face says it all… she really does love to make people smile-smile-smile.
July 20, 2012 — 10:50 AM
Kevin says:
C, good article at a good time makes a great article. Thank you for asking us not to politicize the event.
signed,
-worn down
July 20, 2012 — 10:52 AM
Kara says:
My 7-year-old son has been on vacation in FL with my parents for more than two weeks. Was so happy Wednesday to have him back home. We missed our little guy!
July 20, 2012 — 10:53 AM
Liz Czukas says:
Right now, my little boy is outside practicing on his two-wheeler. I’ve never seen him look so proud.
July 20, 2012 — 10:55 AM
Patrick Ley says:
This morning my wife tweeted me to remind me that it’s been 1 month since we got married and she loves me. It made me smile.
July 20, 2012 — 10:56 AM
Mme G says:
Today I had a wonderful freelance moment. One minute I’m potching about editing a Long Ass Document, next I’m talking to a woman from Russia about doing a voiceover for her video.
It just reminded me how connected we are to people all over the world. I love that, and I hope it never changes.
July 20, 2012 — 10:57 AM
terribleminds says:
I like reading all of this.
Thanks, all.
— c.
July 20, 2012 — 10:59 AM
Scath says:
There’s a stand like that on the way to our closest ‘big’ city. 🙂
Last week, I found a dog standing in the street, trying to lick smushed food off the asphalt. Poor thing was tick infested, bony, scraped up, and scared to death.
We’ve had him about 8 days or so now, and last night, he let me cradle him like a baby. He’s obviously been abused, and is an older dog, but he’s still willing to give humans a chance.
It looks like we’ll be keeping him, instead of trying to find him a home. He’s a Chihuahua, and due to his bad condition, one of my brothers asked if he was a Chupacabra on a FB pic I posted.
We’ve named him the Chupahuahua, so he fits right in with the Chihuahulhu, my little furry shadow rescued from the pound over a year ago. =)
July 20, 2012 — 10:58 AM
Ted says:
Tomorrow, our community is hosting a cookout for 24 foster kids ages 1 through 17. These kids have been through multiple homes, and are still in foster care. We are going to play games and just try to let the kids have some fun. We are providing each one with a bookbag full of school supplies (and baby supplies for the ones too young for school yet).
We’ve been planning this weeks, but given the news, I’m really glad it’s tomorrow.
July 20, 2012 — 11:03 AM
Lugh says:
Tonight, I’m going to a midnight (well, it ends at midnight) showing. But not Batman. I’m going to see Serenity on the big screen.
And I’m wearing this shirt: http://store.pvponline.com/products/joss-whedon-is-my-master-now-tee
July 20, 2012 — 11:07 AM
Dunx says:
I listen to my kids playing with LEGO (putting together a new set from the oldest’s seventh birthday a couple of days ago) and try to remember that there is still joy in the world.
Chuck – thank you for this space. You did a good thing.
July 20, 2012 — 11:10 AM
Keith Rawson says:
My daughter got a fake mustache from her dentist yesterday for being such a good patient and we couldn’t stop laughing as she twirled it with her fingers and acted like the villain from Dudley Doright.
And I’m having lunch with my friend Jason Duke today to talk writing and what not.
Plus it’s the weekend, and that’s always a good thing.
July 20, 2012 — 11:14 AM
Shiri Sondheimer says:
My nineteen day was up all night. I got to hold her for hours. My husband got me a lovely birthday present, my two and a half year old was happy to see his baby sister and he told me he loved me.
That is all.
July 20, 2012 — 11:16 AM
terribleminds says:
Congrats, @Shiri!
July 20, 2012 — 11:19 AM
CB Soulsby says:
Today was the last day of the school year and I had to say goodbye to all the lovely nursery kids I’ve had the pleasure of meeting this year. When the teacher said it was time to say goodbye they rugby tackled me to the floor and smothered me with kisses. Which was great enough but then I asked one of the more reticent kids who did join in whether he’d like a handshake instead. He agreed to enthusiastically. There’s something about shaking hands with a 4 year old that’s pretty heart warming.
July 20, 2012 — 11:20 AM
Brenda says:
Today is one of my best friend’s birthdays. Tonight the group of us is doing dinner and Batman (provided we can still get tickets). On Monday, I get to surprise him with his birthday present, a massive 70″x70″(ish) crocheted afghan that looks like a pixelated death star. As long as no one has been a jabbermouth, he has no idea that I’m doing it.
My mother and grandmother can’t understand why I would spend 1.5 months and 100+ hours of my free time to make a gift that will last far beyond what my friendship with him may last, for someone who loved me when I wasn’t very loveable, is always is there with an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on, can make me smile or laugh when I’ve had a rough day, and has been there for me more than any of my blood family ever has. My grandmother says I’m doing too much for “just a friend.”
I don’t know if I’m doing enough to show how much I appreciate his friendship.
July 20, 2012 — 11:27 AM
AmyLikesToDraw says:
@J.R. Blackwell: What an excellent site. Thank you!
July 20, 2012 — 11:31 AM
Nikki Hill says:
It’s been a couple of years since I got involved in volunteer work – after my first year out of college, I just stopped making time for it – so the other day I applied and interviewed to be a Girl Scout leader again (I led for 3.5 years, most of them during college). My husband and I are also wrapping up paperwork to become a host family for orphaned refugee kids who are transitioning between foster care and fully independent living – it’s been a dream of mine to work with both refugees and foster kids since I was about 9 years old, so it’s really exciting to be making real progress toward seeing it happening. The weather here is beautiful, like a sneak peek of early September in the middle of July, and my younger brother is coming out tonight after he gets out of work so we can play Streets of Rage on an old Sega Genesis he bought a few weeks ago – it’ll be just like when we were kids. Life is really wonderful. 🙂
July 20, 2012 — 11:35 AM
John says:
I recently got back in touch with a friend after about 14 years, and we just picked right back up talking about books. Reconnecting brightened my life just a bit this week.
July 20, 2012 — 11:40 AM
Liz says:
Read a sad story about a two dads and their 4 kids being terrorized in their own home. The Family Equality Council is trying to fundraise enough money to send them to the annual Family Week in Provincetown, MA.
I didn’t even think about it, I donate a small amount because every family deserves to go to a place where they can feel comfortable and accepted.
I hope that small bit of good helps balance out this sad day.
July 20, 2012 — 11:46 AM
Laura says:
When my alarm went off this morning, my kitty jumped up on my bed with a “mrrrowp” and head-butted me.
July 20, 2012 — 11:56 AM
Kelly says:
When I was in college, my father was diagnosed with cancer. It was very important to him that I continue school, but very difficult for me to be away while he underwent chemotherapy and radiation. I was having a rough time. A couple of guys on my dorm floor went to the comic book store every week. We weren’t very close, but they heard I was having a particularly bad week and brought me back some Star Wars comics.
I’ll never forget their act of kindness.
Also, in the realm of nice things, my father survived both that bout of cancer and a one this past year. He’s currently cancer free.
Thanks for setting up this forum! It’s been really nice to be able to read all of this today.
July 20, 2012 — 11:56 AM
KB says:
This is nice. I just want to say my kids make me happy and proud. Both are on their own and working hard to make it and they are content which make husband and I content. My brother and wife are coming for a visit which also makes me happy.
July 20, 2012 — 12:00 PM